OK, even I admit that that headline smacks of hyperbole. After all, with all the management books out there, how could we possibly agree on a single tool that is critical to effective management?
Some folks might think it’s clear roles and responsibilities, and those are really important. Others might think it’s well-documented processes and procedures. Those are valuable too. Still others might think it’s SMART goals or a compelling mission statement.
I’ll be honest. All of those things are pretty darned important. But in my opinion and experience, nothing gets results like effective working relationships. And nothing creates effective relationships – working or otherwise – like frequent, meaningful communication between two humans.
That’s why I’m an absolute evangelist for one-on-ones. There’s nothing more powerful than a manager and her direct report sitting down for 30 minutes every week to chat about whatever’s on the direct’s mind.
With well-run one-on-ones, insights surface, obstacles are removed and fires are prevented. More importantly, however, effective working relationships are formed – relationships that allow organizations to sell more, add more value and just plain get things done.
The first objection I usually encounter to this is, “But I already have one-on-ones.” If that’s true, I’m sorry to have wasted your time. However, in most cases, I find what people think are one-on-ones are really status updates, two-person staff meetings or interrogations. One of the keys to effective one-on-ones is that your direct report should determine the agenda. You might kick off the meeting with an open-ended question, but let the direct take it from there. That doesn’t mean you can’t use the time to give your direct feedback or coach her in a development area, but the primary driver of the conversation is your direct report, not you.
The second objection is usually, “But I don’t have that kind of time.” I’m not entirely unsympathetic on that one. We’re all busy – too busy – and fitting in a bunch of 30-minute one-on-ones every week seems nearly impossible. Trust me, it can be done. Even if you have 10 direct reports, that’s only five hours every week – 13% of a standard work week (and probably even less of yours).
Not only is 13% of your time very little to spend on direct management, it will also pay dividends before you know it and actually save you time.
How much productivity do you lose when you and your directs aren’t on the same page?
How much time do you lose every week to urgent interruptions from your direct reports, asking for help navigating a political minefield, removing a roadblock or putting out a fire?
I can guarantee that – after just a few weekly, 30-minute one-on-ones – those interruptions and that lost productivity will decrease dramatically. Once you’ve opened the door to frequent, meaningful communication, your directs will be much more likely to be on the same page with you and much less likely to feel that every obstacle requires your immediate intervention.
I could go on and on about one-on-ones – why to do them, how to do them, when to do them, where to do them – but I won’t. I’ll simply ask you to give some thought to whether you’re having effective one-on-ones and, if not, if you’re willing to gamble 30 minutes a week to dramatically improve productivity.
Also, if you’re interested in more details on one-on-ones, I strongly encourage you to check outhttp://www.manager-tools.com. Mark Horstman and Mike Auzenne host a podcast there that aligns very closely to my own advice on effective management, and they have some particularly powerful guidance on one-one-ones that just might change your life.
How’s that for hyperbole?
Eryc Eyl / Freelance Writer and Business Consultant